December Walking Book Club – The Kitchen God’s Wife

The Kitchen God's Wife Amy Tan

In November, of my favourite authors Amy Tan, released a new novel — The Valley of Amazement. It’s been seven years since her last full-length novel … so I’ve been waiting in anticipation for a while!

In honour of the new release, I’ve chosen an oldie-but-goodie Tan novel for the October Walking Book Club – The Kitchen God’s Wife.  

About The Kitchen God’s Wife…

In the tradition of all Walking Book Club choices, The Kitchen God’s Wife touches on neuroscience.

Tan writes about speech therapist Pearl who hides her seven-year struggle with multiple sclerosis from her mother, Winnie, who is in turn hiding news of her own benign brain tumour. Interestingly, both Tan’s father and brother died of brain tumours when she was a teenager.

Pearl is the American-born daughter of a Chinese mother, Winnie and a Chinese-American father, Jimmie. As a result she is raised in a kind of limbo between two worlds, and, by the time we meet her when she is in her 40s, she is more American than Chinese, is married to an American man, has two American girls, and has a sad distance between herself and her mother.

As with all of Tan’s books, The Kitchen God’s Wife looks at the difficulties of bicultural life, the female struggle in a patriarchal society, and the tension between fate and self-determination.

The novel alternates between the 1990s and 1920s and various cities, country towns, and islands in and off the coast of China as well as California.

As a reviewer noted on Good Reads, Amy Tan writes about women (complex women!) and I think that’s one of the things I love about her books too!

About Amy Tan…

Amy Tan grew up in Northern California, but when her father and older brother both died she moved with her mother and younger brother to Europe, where she attended high school in Switzerland. She returned to the US for college, and then worked as a language development consultant and freelance writer.

In 1989  she published best-selling The Joy Luck Club, which explored the relationship between Chinese women and their Chinese-American daughters, The Kitchen God’s Wife followed in 1991, The Hundred Secret Senses in 1995, The Bonesetter’s Daughter in 2000, and her last novel Saving Fish from Drowning was published in 2005. And I’ve been waiting for another ever since!

What happens after I read The Kitchen God’s Wife?

In about two weeks time I’ll send out my newsletter with questions for you and your friends to discuss while you walk. and I’ll also put the questions here on the blog.  If you haven’t already signed up for the Your Brain Health newsletter you can sign up here.

As always, the questions will be designed to spark discussion about broader issues raised in the book, not a page-by-page analysis of the plot and characters!!

If you need a reminder of the philosophy behind The Walking Book Club you can read more here….


Walking Book Club questions for discussion

  1. It is often said that Winnie’s storytelling like that of someone telling a fairytale – a young, powerless princess waits for her prince (Jimmy) to rescue her from a terrible prison.  Discuss this ‘fairytale’ attitude to life, and to marriage.  Did you ever feel that way?
  2.  According to Winnie, has her life been filled with such bad luck. Do you believe in ‘bad luck’?
  3.  Near the end of the novel, Pearl says, “. . . it is enough to remember—all the things you thought you had forgotten but were never forgotten, all the hopes that can still be found.” Memory is key to repairing Pearl’s and Winnie’s relationship as mother and daughter.  Discuss how memories can help to repair broken relationships.
  4.  Helen is the only person alive that knows Winnie’s real story, and she is closest to Winnie in that way. Is there someone in your life that knows your real story?
  5.  How did Winnie’s mother disappear? Did she commit suicide? Did she simply abandon her marriage? Did she fall ill and die? Do you find that you ever have an answer to this question, and is the answer to this question important?
  6. Cleaning and sweeping is a symbol in then novel for ‘cleaning away’ the past. Many people have rituals in order to forget and ‘wipe away’ the past.  Discuss what rituals you may have to ‘clean away’ the past.
SparkNotes Editors. “SparkNote on The Kitchen God’s Wife.” SparkNotes LLC. n.d.. Web. 26 Sept. 2013.

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