Why women live longer than men (Part 4 of Your Brain at 100).


All over the world, women live longer than men.

In Australia in 2016, the median age at death was 85.0 years for women and 78.9 years for men. The gender gap grows with age. Among centenarians worldwide, women outnumber men nine to one.

The female advantage is not restricted to humans as in other species. From honeybees to orca whales to rodents, females outlive males.

The longevity gender gap has always ebbed and flowed.

Mortality before modernity was influenced by wars, infection, and death during childbirth. In nineteenth-century Europe, life expectancy was less than forty years, and the longevity of men and women was generally very similar.

High female mortality due to pregnancy and childbirth corresponded to high male mortality from causes related to work, accidental injury, or war (both sexes succumbed to infection and disease in equal numbers.)

The greatest gap was seen during in the middle decades of the twentieth century. For example, in the UK in the 1970s, life expectancy between men and women was about seven years apart. In the early years of the twentieth century, men smoked and drank, went to war and worked in physically stressful jobs. The men who died at middle age during the 70s were the ‘carriers’ of an excess mortality determined by their misspent youth.

The longevity gender gap is beginning to close

Teenagers and young men are three times more likely than young women to die by accidents (usually in a car), suicide, drowning, and violence. These rates ensure that more women are alive by age twenty-five than men.

In middle age, men are still more likely to die in car accidents or from suicide, but illnesses related to smoking, alcohol and poor diet start to emerge, with death from heart disease being the main cause of the gender gap.

For men, the risk of heart disease begins in their forties.

For women, it doesn’t start to increase until after menopause. By late life, men are more likely than women to die from heart disease, cancer and diabetes. Of course, women are not immortal, and we lead the statistics in death from dementia, chronic lower respiratory (lung) disease, cerebrovascular disease, influenza and pneumonia.

Each generation ‘carries’ their lifestyle load of risk forward.

The gap has closed over the past few decades. Harvard scientist Thomas Perls, who heads up NECS and the Long Life Family Study, suggests it’s primarily the reduction in male mortality, as opposed to the increase in female mortality, that closes the gap.

In general, the higher a nation’s level of social and economic development, the greater the life expectancy for both men and women and the greater the convergence in the two figures.

The life experiences and circumstances of women now in their eighties and nineties have been different from those of their daughters and granddaughters. Each generation ‘carries’ their lifestyle load of risk forward.

Only time will tell if girls and boys born today reach ‘equality’ in mortality.

The influence of biological sex on lifespan

The secret to longevity is actually quite simple. Avoid dying young!

So, do women live longer because we pay closer attention to Blue Zones lifestyle advice or because we make more visits to the doctor, thereby avoiding an early death?

Probably not.

As mentioned, elderly women often spend their extra few years of life in poor health, and female non-human species generally outlive their male counterparts, so it’s doubtful whether we can attribute healthy lifestyle practices for the gender gap.

Female longevity theories:

X Chromosomes.

Clearly, men and women differ genetically, and one theory posits that the female ‘backup’ X chromosome provides a survival advantage. Men, in contrast, have only one X chromosome, so they cannot rely on a backup if a gene is defective.


Another theory implicates mitochondria, which exist in almost all animal cells and convert our food into the energy that powers the body. Genetic variation in mitochondria reliably predicts life expectancy in males but not in females. We receive copies of genes from both parents, except for mitochondrial genes that come only from our mother. It’s possible natural selection, which is evolution’s ‘quality control process’, only screens the quality of mitochondrial genes in females, so the mutations related to ageing are carried by males.


Finally, longevity in women might be advantageous for a relatively warm and fuzzy reason: grandmothers!

Menopausal orcas contribute to the survival of young whales by guiding the pod to hunting grounds, and a similar theory proposes human matriarchs confer the same survival benefits through the practice known as ‘alloparenting’.

The cute but contentious ‘grandmother hypothesis’ was first proposed in the 1980s, when anthropologist Kristen Hawkes spent time with the Hadza hunter–gatherer communities in Tanzania.

Hawkes noticed that when grandmothers supported their daughters by babysitting and gathering food, the grandchildren and the entire tribe were healthier and lived longer.

Hawkes took this idea one step further and claimed that grandmothers provide the foundation for human social connection, pair bonding, and the evolution of bigger brains. Hawkes has since watered down her original hypothesis based on mathematical modelling of human populations, but still claims,

Grandmothers make us human.

The influence of reproductive history on the lifespan

Your reproductive history includes the length of time from menarche to menopause, number of pregnancies, your age at your first and last pregnancies, and duration of breastfeeding.

This history reflects the cumulative exposure to sex hormones and your exposure to parenting.

Women who give birth after 40 live longer.

This phenomenon was first noticed in centenarian women — a remarkable number had babies late in life.

According to the LLFS, women who gave birth to a child after the age of forty have four times greater odds of reaching 100 compared to women who have their last child before the age of forty.

Women who have their last child after the age of thirty-three years have twice the odds of exceptional longevity compared to women who had their last child before age twenty-nine.

Yet to be untangled is whether those women who give birth later in life are ‘slower agers’ and, therefore, more fertile later in life. Or if experiencing a pregnancy in your 40s contributes to longevity. (My personal feeling is it’s the former).

The age at which you give birth to your first baby matters, too.

Time and time again, studies have found women who give birth in their teens experience worse health as they age, and they die younger than women who delay their first pregnancy. Socioeconomic status contributes to this statistic.

For example, teenage mothers are more likely to have grown up in disadvantaged households than women who delay their first pregnancy, and by virtue of raising a child from a young age, they’re less likely to stay in education, and more likely to continue the cycle of disadvantage.

The optimal number of children is two or three.

Over the years, there have been conflicting reports on whether the number of children you have influences lifespan. It turns out that the relationship between motherhood and mortality follows a J-shaped curve.

If, like me, you’re partial to a glass of red wine, you may be familiar with the ‘J-shaped’ curve for alcohol consumption and health, whereby a glass or two of wine a day is more beneficial for health than nothing, or drinking to excess. Like glasses of red wine, having two or three children is better for your health and longevity than remaining childfree, or giving birth to four or more.

The optimal spacing between children is two to three years.

Finally, having short birth intervals between your children (less than eighteen months apart or having twins or triplets) is linked to worse health, increased prescriptions for antidepressants (hardly a surprise), and earlier death compared to parents who space their children out by two to three years.

Researchers state the ‘emotional, psychological and social strains of raising multiple children’ does the damage.

I concur: the stresses and strains of having two boys under two with no extended family on hand quickly took its toll on my mental health. I only hope the fact I snuck my two in just after the magic age of 33 will somehow counterbalance the strain!

Big families reduce life expectancy in dads, too!

Interestingly, the J-shaped relationship between the number of children and birth spacing is also present for fathers. The more children men have, the higher their risk of death from alcohol-related disease, heart disease, and accidents. While it might be tempting to say children drive men (and women) to drink (or justify their glasses of wine), there’s no evidence the relationship between your children and your health is causal, instead, a correlation exists.

Like an apple a day, oestrogen protects and keeps the doctor away

It remains to be seen whether ovarian hormones such as oestrogen and pregnancy per se contribute to longevity.

Certainly, data is showing that having babies and breastfeeding them protect against cancers, especially breast and ovarian cancer.

The protective effect is strongest if you have children before 30 and breastfeed them for a year or more. We think protection is due to reduced exposure to monthly fluctuations of oestrogen and progesterone, rather than overall exposure.

Do female sex hormones increase or decrease lifespan?

Broadly speaking, oestrogen is neuroprotective, and the bigger the cumulative dose you receive over your lifespan, the better off you’ll be. Thus, earlier age at menarche, more than one pregnancy, and use of the pill appear to offer some protection against cognitive decline in later life.

It’s important to note the data on reproductive history, hormonal status and longevity are crunched from large population-based studies, often from Scandinavian countries where the government keeps particularly detailed health records. For example, the birth-spacing finding came from Norway where researchers were able to gather complete health histories for all women and men ever born and living in the country after 1935. Similarly, the data on family size comes from the Swedish population register for all people born and living in the country between 1932 and 1960.

For women who decide to take HRT for menopause symptoms, the results of eighteen years of follow-up on HRT trials should provide reassurance. You’re not doing your brain health any harm with HRT. But also, HRT isn’t the magic anti-dementia pill its made out to be either.

Here’s a link to another blog post on the latest research (updated to 2024)

Family planning for longevity — is that even a thing?

We tend to turn ‘research’ into ‘me-search’ and view the data through our life lens.

So, it’s important to remember that the benefits and harms I’m discussing are based on averages across large populations and are not always directly applicable to each of us.

Eliminating risks merely tips the scale in your favour.

Thomas Perls agrees:

This does not mean women should wait to have children at older ages in order to improve their own chances of living longer. The age at last childbirth can be a rate-of-aging indicator. The natural ability to have a child at an older age likely indicates that a woman’s reproductive system is aging slowly, and therefore so is the rest of her body.

So, if you’re in your teens or twenties, it’s probably unwise to apply data on longevity to your future family planning.

This is part 4 of a series of lessons in brain health from our elders — those folk who lived the longest and healthiest.

Click here to download the entire series as a PDF

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  1. Minerva on October 7, 2021 at 5:17 pm

    Wonderful research. Now i understand things. mostly i seen Facebook memes about why women live longer and laughed. after reading this article i understand why. valuable infos. Thanks!

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